Monday, February 19, 2007

Muslim women don’t feel oppression










Muslim women do not mind the veil but want to vote as they wish, according to a survey released Thursday, in which respondents did not feel oppression in Muslim countries.
Lebanon had the highest proportion of women who feel they should be allowed to make their own decisions on voting, at 97 percent, followed by Egypt and Morocco, each at 95 percent. Lowest was Pakistan, with 68 percent, according to The New York Times reporting on a Gallup poll.
None of the 8,000 women surveyed even mentioned the use of the head scarf or the full-lenth burqa in open-ended questions, the Times said.
Despite the suffragist leanings, Muslim women set aside their own issues and said their countries had greater problems, such as violent extremism, corruption and lack of unity among Muslim countries.
Although women largely said they should be able to work outside the home and serve in the highest levels of government, they linked sexual equality with the West: 78 percent in Morocco, 71 percent in Lebanon and 48 percent in Saudi Arabia, the New York daily reported.However, when asked what they least admired about the West, they said moral decay, promiscuity and pornography, which degraded women.
A majority of the women said that economic or political advancement in Muslim countries would not improve with the adoption of Western values, the survey said, according to the New York daily.
Face-to-face interviews were conducted among 8,000 women in 2005 for "What Women Want: Listening to the Voices of Muslim Women," part of The Gallup World Poll, a project to canvass 95 percent of the world's people.
Overwhelming majorities of the women said the best aspect of their cultures was their countries' "attachment to moral and spiritual values," the Times said of the poll.
"Women's empowerment has been identified as a key goal of US policy in the region," said Dalia Mogahed, of The Gallup World Poll.
However, Mogahed said that what Muslim women really want has not been plumbed.
Egyptian-born Mogahed wears a head scarf, and said that Muslim women have not been brainwashed, according to the Times.
She cited as proof statements of the respondents that they deserved certain rights.
"In every culture there is a dominant narrative, and in many cases it is constructed by people in power who happen to be men," she was quoted as saying in the Times.



Source:Hindustanis.org

WOMEN (What We Are)


















WOMEN are a good thing!
WOMEN are soft!
WOMEN are sensuous!
WOMEN are sexy!
WOMEN are sweet tasting!
WOMEN are fun to play with!
WOMEN are pleasing to the eye!
WOMEN are strong!
WOMEN are child bearers!
WOMEN are much needed mates!
WOMEN are an emotional species!
WOMEN are the passion of men!
WOMEN are beautiful to men!
WOMEN are temptresses!
WOMEN are curvaceous!
WOMEN are mistresses!
WOMEN are wives!
WOMEN are friends!
WOMEN are bitches!
WOMEN are behind every successful man! (wink)
WOMEN are comfort!
WOMEN bleed!
WOMEN cry!
WOMEN are what make men tick!
WOMEN are like the ocean. When they feel loved, their self esteem rises and falls like the ocean at its wildest time. A woman`s ability to accept and return her love is usually a reflection of how she sees herself. If a woman sees herself as happy and sexy, her arms and heart are wide open. When she sees herself as down and plain, she falls into a pit of darkness and numbness. During this time an open mind and heart is much needed to be on the receiving end. Then, and only then can she rise up and feel all the love that is within her and be of pure radiant love and intimacy.
WOMEN tend to feel deep emotions, such as insecurity, worry, resentment, hopelessness, mistrust, control, disapproval, possesiveness, need, confusion, overwhelmed and a total failure. The more support that a woman connects with, the more her trust grows inside her and releases all the negative emotions that her chemical hormones plant inside her.
WOMEN yearn, for understanding, respect, devotion, reassurance, a soft touch of his lips to be cared for, to be admired, to feel equal leverage, and to feel loved genuinely.
WOMEN love to find their space through simple things such as: reading a book, listening to music, work in a garden, excercise (wink), get a massage, write a journal, watch a chick flick, take a bubble bath with lots of candles, chat with a girlfriend for a long time, go shopping, take a long walk, have a nice glass of wine, please their partner (wink), or simply just curl up on the couch and dream.
WOMEN are the heart of a relationship, they are the fantasy, they are the flower, the candles, the wine, the soft romantic music, the sexy outfit, the pleasure of joining as one, and they are the sweet smell of nature.
WOMEN are what men lust after!
WOMEN are what men yearn for!
WOMEN are what men live for!
WOMEN are what men fall for!
WOMEN are what men kill for!
WOMEN are what men plan for!
WOMEN are what men fight for!
WOMEN are what men change for!
WOMEN are what nurture men!
WOMEN are what love men!
WOMEN are what releive men!
WOMEN are what softens men!
WOMEN are what makes a man tick!
WOMEN complete men!
WOMEN are what a man NEEDS!
As much as women can be confusing, emotional, misguiding, clever, coniving, frustrating, crazy, annoying, downright nasty at times, cold, detatched, and at times freaky, men have a way of just by a touch or a word to reach out and make them feel safe and loved.
I am proud to be the WOMEN in my mans life! Are you?



Source:Hindustanis.org

Dating Advice for Women – Eight Key Rules

















Dating advice for women has changed drastically in the last decade. Women used to bend over backward to please a potential suitor; then they would lose them as time wore on. “I never seem to get past the first few months. What am I doing wrong?” Sound familiar? It may be that your intentions are good, but you’re trying too hard. I’ve put together some sound dating advice for women in order to avoid this and make things go more smoothly.
Talk to Avoid
Don’t talk about your last boyfriend, fiancĂ© or husband on the first few dates. Men immediately think one of two things if you talk about your ex during a date. Either you’re still hung up on him, or you’re bitter and angry about being dumped. A guy doesn’t like either of these options, and he’ll take a pass on someone with that kind of emotional baggage.
Be Yourself
For a single woman, dating advice should probably be more complex than that, but really it all boils down to those two words: “Be yourself.” Don’t pull out all the stops being a sex kitten siren if that’s not you. Forget playing the girl next door to catch his interest if you aren’t that type. You’ll only get yourself stuck in a role that will increasingly frustrate you, and eventually he’ll see through the charade and be offended by your dishonesty.
Don’t Trap Him
Even if you sense that he’s got great potential early on, don’t start talking about your future dreams of marriage and family right away. The most often overlooked dating advice for women is usually the most crucial – men take things slower. They don’t want to be considered as a potential life partner after date number two. They’ll feel trapped, and like all trapped animals, they will run or go on the defensive.
Accept Compliments
You’d be surprised how often men complain that women can’t take a compliment properly. If he tells you that you look wonderful, a simple, “Thank you,” is the right response. Don’t cut yourself down or accuse him of, “Just saying that.” You also shouldn’t go into details about how you borrowed the dress from a friend because it was so expensive you’d never dream of buying it yourself, blah, blah, blah. If he says you look lovely in the dress, acknowledge the compliment and move on. He really doesn’t want the details of how or why you look great – but he will appreciate being thanked for noticing that you do. Accepting a compliment means you are self-confident and comfortable with yourself.
Be on Time
This is great dating advice for women and men. Whether you’re meeting a man someplace or he’s picking you up, it’s not polite or thoughtful to leave him cooling his heels – and no, and it doesn’t build anticipation. It just makes you seem rude.
Express Your Opinions Honestly
Men quickly get bored with women who always agree with everything they say. Sure, it may be flattering to the ego for a bit, but that soon fades to boredom and/or irritation when they realize they can’t sustain an intelligent conversation with you. It’s also draining personally to keep up that kind of charade – what are you going to do a year from now? Stand firm on issues that are important to you, discuss events honestly but don’t get into an argument just to prove you’re right. Disagreeing on some things is what adds spice to a relationship – as long as the disagreements aren’t moral or life-changing.
Don’t be a Pest
It may sound like old-fashioned dating advice for women, but I believe it still holds true – men like to know they’re interesting, but they don’t want to be nagged into dating you. Can you call a man a few days after a date and thank him for a nice evening and chat? Sure! But don’t call the next day, then the next, then the next. Leave one message – if he’s interested, he’ll call you back. It may take a few days (he could be busy, he could be nervous). If he isn’t interested, increasingly desperate, repeated messages from you won’t help your cause.
Be Positive
You are on a date, not at a therapy session. Spilling your guts about how much your mother drives you crazy and why you want to kill your boss will not endear you to a man who had hopes of enjoying a relaxing evening with you. Should you hope that a relationship includes friendship? Yes! But don’t treat a man you’ve recently started dating like your old college roommate or priest. True confessions aren’t good for the soul or the relationship too early on, and lots of complaining gives the impression you may never be happy with your life.
Dating advice for women could go on for pages, but the eight major rules above will cover almost every situation. Whether it’s your first date or your tenth, it’s all about being true to yourself, honest with him and kind to both of you.



Source:Hindustanis.org

What do men want from women?





















Actually, it's pretty simple. Deep inside the heart of every man is a secret wish to be trusted. How many times have men said to their wives, "If you would just trust me." Many men wonder why it seems so difficult for their wives to do something so seemingly simple. The answer stems from the physiological differences between the sexes.
It begins at birth when little boys are given a distinct physical advantage over little girls by having higher levels of testosterone. With testosterone comes the physical strength to both defend themselves from danger and/or run away from a threat. Most little girls don't have that ability. They don't have the strength to defend themselves in a physically fight when they feel threatened. If a boy trusts someone who in turn hurts them, they can always defend themselves physically (or try to). Little girls don't have that physical option of power. Since a person can only trust from a position of strength, those same little girls will grow up into women who naturally have a more difficult time "trusting" when they feel vulnerable.
So men, when you ask the woman of your choice to simply "trust you," it's not that she can't, she's just more vulnerable than you. If you want her to trust you, she needs something that will help develop that trust.
Perhaps even a tool or gesture that she can count on until that trust with you is established. Thankfully this tool already exists and is known every woman. What cultivates trust in a woman is a man who consistently keeps his word. Making a promise is meaningless if there is no follow through.
A woman needs to SEE her man fulfill his promises because seeing is always more powerful than hearing. Allow me to illustrate. Imagine someone told you that I was the meanest person they had ever met. For months all you heard was how terrible I treated my family and friends. Then one day you met me and during the course of our meeting you begin to notice that I didn't seem to be as horrible as you were led to believe. I actually appeared to be rather pleasant. Would you change your entire opinion about me from one visit? Probably not! However, if you saw me respond consistently with kindness and humility over a period of weeks, your opinion of me would begin to change. A paradox has just been established. The kindness you have seen in me for the last few weeks does not match what you have heard about me. All the rumors of how mean I am begin to fade into darkness because of my consistent actions. Over time what you see will replace most if not all of your concerns about my character.
Men, with all the relationship advice I give, I must tell you that when the woman you love sees your words lining up with your actions, trust will naturally follow. When you don't keep your word it causes your wife/girlfriend to become fearful. From her perspective, she has entrusted you with her Heart and WANTS to trust you. She simply needs your help in giving you what you want.



Source:Hindustanis.org

Thursday, February 15, 2007

Are You One Of The 40,000,000 Invisible Women In Our Society? By Georgia Donov
































It's a sad but true fact that so many women over forty feel invisible. Changing this has become my passion.
One of the things that inspired me to do what I now do, after having had an executive position with a telecom giant, was an experience I had one day following one of my seminars.
An attractive, well dressed woman came up to me and told me that the thing she hated most about becoming older was that she felt invisible. She explained how, everywhere you look, you see woman in their twenties and thirties being presented as role models for beauty and style. Rarely do you see mature women in TV and print ads and some of the fashion magazines feature teenagers as models. There's only one magazine devoted entirely to the mature woman - More Magazine.
Just because we're getting older doesn't mean we have to become an invisible part of society. It doesn't mean we we have to let ourselves go, gain weight and start looking frumpy. My late aunt Josie, while in her eighties, looked like she just stepped off the cover of Vogue whenever she went out.
A woman can still look great as she ages if . . . she learns how to do it.
Many of the makeup techniques that work on a twenty or thirty year old, are a disaster on the face of a forty five year old woman. Unfortunately, many older women have not yet learned this. As we age, one of the makeup secrets we need to know is that "Less is better."
Mistakes in wardrobe are even more apparent. Recently, I was asked by a national magazine to comment on some celebrity women. Here's what I had to say about an outfit that Kim Catrall, who I happen to adore, was wearing:
"Belly bearing cutoffs and lace up top are not for the over forty woman. Longer, boy cut shorts and a fuller cut tank with a built-in bra would give her the same bare look."
Below are some fashion anchors every woman over forty should have in her wardrobe:
- A "Little Black Dress" - Black/Navy Pencil or A-Line Skirt - Black/Navy Slacks/Trousers - Black Cashmere Sweater - White Shirt - Comfortable yet Chic Black 2" heels - Classic Trench Coat.
Fashion tips: Pants with clean lines, no pockets, no pleats look best on almost every woman because they are slimming.
Black or navy will make you look thinner, but add some color with accessories to give your look some flair. Elastic waist pants or skirts are to be avoided at all costs because they flatter no one.
Develop a signature. Wear a favorite ring or special bracelet all the time. Something people will always identify and remember about you.
The scarf should be a wardrobe staple. Learn how to use it and wear it many ways, such as, looped through your pants as a belt, or tied on the handle of your handbag.




Source:Hindustanis.org

Friday, February 9, 2007

Women who are breaking barriers














General Sheila R. Baxter, Commander, Madigan Army Medical Center

The first female general officer in the Army Medical Service Corps is Brigadier (Brig-a-deer) General Sheila R. Baxter, a 28-year career officer. A Brigadier General is an officer of the rank between colonel and major general. In July 2002, she received the Honorary Silver Award for excellence in community service from the Lord Mayor of Pirmasens, Germany. She is a licensed Evangelist with the Church of God in Christ, Inc.

















Dr. Mae Jemison, NASA Astronaut

Dr. Mae Jemison
blasted into orbit aboard the space shuttle Endeavor, September 12, 1992 – the first woman of color to go into space. This historic event was only another in a series of accomplishments for this dynamic African-American women. Dr. Jemison was Science Mission Specialist (a NASA first) on the STS-47 Space lab J flight, an US/Japan joint mission. She conducted experiments in life sciences, material sciences, and was co-investigator in the Bone Cell Research experiment. Dr. Jemison resigned from NASA in March 1993.



















Angelina Jolie, Actress and Goodwill Ambassador

Not only is Angelina Jolie an Academy Award-winning American actress and model, she is a Goodwill Ambassador for the United Nations (U.N.) High Commission for Refugees. Since 2001, she frequently travels to countries in order to draw attention to the plight of people in developing countries. Since taking on her goodwill ambassador duties, Jolie has, on numerous occasions, made public statements that she wants to quit acting and concentrate on her U.N. work.
















Anne Mulcahy, CEO of Xerox

Anne M. Mulcahy
is chairman of the board and chief executive officer of Xerox Corporation. She was named CEO of Xerox on August 1, 2001, and chairman on January 1, 2002. She began her Xerox career as a field sales representative in 1976 and assumed increasingly responsible sales and senior management positions. From 1992-1995, Mulcahy was vice president for














Danica Patrick , Professional race car driver

Danica Sue Patrick
is a professional race car driver in the Indy Racing League (IRL). She was named Rookie of The Year in the 2005 IRL Championship. Last year, she also won her first pole position, leading a 1,2,3 sweep by Rahal-Letterman Racing at Kansas Speedway. Patrick became the second woman to accomplish this feat in the IRL IndyCar Series – the first being Sarah Fisher in 2002 at the Kentucky Speedway. Patrick will be competing again this year in the 2006 IRL IndyCar Series, giving her another chance at qualifying and racing in the Indianapolis 500.














Condoleezza Rice,
U.S. Secretary of Sta

Dr. Condoleezza Rice
became the 66th Secretary of State on January 26, 2005. She is the first woman to hold this position. Dr. Rice is the second in the administration of President George W. Bush. She was previously Bush's National Security Advisor during his first term (2001–2005). Before joining the Bush administration, Dr. Rice was a Professor of Political Science at Stanford University where she served as Provost from 1993 to 1999.


Source:Hindustanis.org

Thursday, February 8, 2007

WOMEN women-Make them partners in progress


Once upon a time, 50-odd years ago, we Indians gave ourselves a Constitution. It is one of the most progressive constitutions in the world, and guarantees equal rights to men and women, including the right to vote, to own property, to move about freely within the country and to earn a living.

All through our childhood in the 1950s and 1960s, we the Midnight’s Children, were reminded of this. As we grew up, however, we began to see a parallel reality. We found that notwithstanding all the promises made in the Constitution, men in India, especially upper caste men, accrued more advantages by virtue of being born male. They are fed better, given better education and treatment when ill, are mostly paid higher wages than women counterparts and have infinitely better access to markets and information of all kinds. Contrary to the natural pattern of gender balance the world over, Indian men also outnumber women everywhere in India (933 women for 1000 men).

Undernourished

Most Indian women go through life in a state of great nutritional and educational deprivation. They continue to be married off at a very young age, have multiple pregnancies before their bodies are capable of bearing the burden, bring forth underweight and weak babies and despite medical advancement die in large numbers from treatable, pregnancy-related problems. The average Indian woman bears her first child before she is 22 years old; 90 per cent are anaemic and reproductive tract infections are endemic among both urban and rural poor due to poor hygiene and generally weak constitution. Only 54 per cent of the women are literate, and although girls are entered into school, the rate of girl dropouts remains large due to poverty and early marriages followed by early pregnancy.





























UNENDING WOES: Low pay, poor health and high rates of maternal mortality still haunt most of the Indian women. — Photo by Manoj Mahajan

The first task before us is to make the importance of women’s work and their great contribution to the GDP and the growth of the nation, visible to our policy makers and the women themselves. In 1989, a committee constituted by the Rajiv Gandhi government, submitted Shramshakti, the first-ever national report on women working in the informal (unorganised) sector in India. The report revealed that almost 90 per cent of women workers were working in this sector. They continue to perform multiple, unpaid tasks, besides labouring as mothers, wives and domestic workers, cattle rearers, fuel and fodder collectors. As workers, however, women had poor visibility in government reports and surveys. They were almost always described as housewives, even when they were principal bread winners for the family, and remained unprotected by labour laws.

Unlike men, working women in the informal sector have poor access to education, skill upgradation and health care. Sixteen years after Shramshakti and three decades after ‘Towards Freedom’— the first status of women report— Indian women’s literacy and life expectancy levels may have gone up a bit , but low pay, poor health and high rates of maternal mortality still haunt most of them through life. And since it has become possible (by a gross misuse of ultrasonic tests) to foretell the sex of an unborn foetus, aborting the females has become a rampant practice in affluent states like Punjab, Delhi, Haryana, Gujarat and Maharashtra. As a result, the male-female ratio is becoming alarmingly adverse to women.

It is time the government and nodal bodies thought of bringing out a nation-wide status report on India’s women that provides policy-makers with clearly articulated and well- researched data. The last such report was prepared in 1975, and the facts it highlighted shook the conscience of the nation’s policy-makers. As a result, many changes were made in the methods of census data collection, labour laws, education and healthcare systems. In the last decade the gradual privatisation of medical and educational institutions has created further grave disorders in the lives of women. Coupled with the decline in the numbers of women in practically all the states of India, this, if not put in perspective against a nation-wide picture, will have grim consequences for us.

Fifty years may be a short time in the history of a nation, but it has brought about profound changes in the lives of India’s educated, urban working women. They have broken out of all caste, class and gender-based cages and proved their mettle in every field. However, we must continue to worry about a majority of our women who are still sedimented at the bottom in the urban and rural poverty zones. Important bodies like the National Commission of Women should strive for this, instead of wasting their time in acting like a wing of the ruling party, whatever it is, and communalising or politicising individual incidents of rapes, dowry harassment and child marriages in a piecemeal fashion.

Rise in crime

There is another major need, and this is to check the alarming rise in crimes against women everywhere. The National Crime Records Bureau reported in 1998 that by 2010, crime against women would have a higher growth rate than our population. But crimes against women are a multidimensional problem, and cannot be cured by a simplistic remedy. Progressive legislation like the law for Prevention of Domestic Violence as also the amended inheritance law for Hindu women, are healthy developments. But this has to be followed by sensitisation of the public, the police and even the lower judiciary about the human rights of women. An extra effort is needed here because women are still grossly under-represented in our legislative bodies. True, reservations for women in panchayats have brought a million women in the rural areas into decision-making arenas of the gram panchayats. But now their hands need to be further strengthened by measures that will control the traditional women-baiters on the one hand, and train and equip the elected women with the needed skills and knowledge on the other.

It is a shame that despite making the reservation of 33 per cent seats for women in the legislature a part of their election manifestos, most political parties have chosen to stall the actual Bill for making this a reality through devious arguments. On the domestic level, parents must now look beyond worrying endlessly about ‘settling’ their daughters at the earliest with a heavy dowry and instead arm their daughters with proper education and skills for being financially self-supporting.

When all is said and done, critical dimensions of freedom and equality cannot be measured like sugar or ghee. Human dignity, self respect, mental and emotional security are the birthright of every citizen. It is hard to quantify and measure them. Data helps, but understanding the truth behind the data is even more important. Real gender equality, like charity, must begin at home.



Source:Hindustanis.org

Indian Women Clothing























Indian clothing is known for its colorfulness and grace. Outfits for women such as the sari, salwar suit, lehanga, bring out the essence of feminism. Although there is no strict uniformity in dress, certain trends in clothing prevails throughout the country.
The Traditional Indian Clothing is the Sari which can be worn in many ways. Underneath the sari one wears a waist-to-floor length skirt, tied tightly at the waist by a drawstring and a a blouse that ends just below the bust. The Salwar Kameej is the second most popular dress and is gaining in popularity fast with the younger generation. The Salwar Kameej too has had many design changes. The new designers have come up with great variations of the Salwar Kameej.












Another common outfit worn by women is the salwar-kameez. A salwar resembles a pyjama drawn tightly in at the waist with a string and is tailored in such a way that it tapers at the ankles. The kameez is worn over the salwar. This is a long shapely outfit, which resembles a long shirt. The most common pattern has sleeves up to the wrists, slits on the sides, a mandarin collar with buttons in front. Instead of a salwar, women also wear a churidar.
Apart from the choli, women in Rajasthan wear a form of pleated skirt known as the ghagra or lehanga. This skirt is secured at the waist and leaves the back and midriff bare. The heads are however covered by a length of fine cotton known as "odhni" or "dupatta".
















Source:Hindustanis.org

Condition of Indonesian Women Migrants Still Deplorable in Malaysia















Indonesia, a country with more than 200 million people is still not recovered from the 1997 Asian economic crisis consequent upon which, many people drift abroad in search of a better life particularly women and children.

Not only were they harassed, physically abused or even raped but were also sent home without proper payment or traded from one employer to another.

The owners further curtail their freedom by taking away migrants’ passports.

Figuratively:

1. More than 90 percent of Malaysia’s 240,000 domestic workeres are Indonesian.
2. 17,000 domestic workers left their employers in 2003, and many of these cases have involved some form of abuse.
3. 150,000 Indonesian women are working as maids in Peninsular Malaysia.
4. More than 400,000 Indonesians offically work in Malaysia, not only employed as maids but also as construction workers or shop attendants.

Migrant workers

Indonesian domestic workers in Malaysia typically work grueling 16 to 18 hour days, seven days a week, and earn less than US$5 a day.

Many employers hold their domestic worker’s salary until the end of the standard two-year contract.

Most domestic workers are forbidden to leave their workplace and many suffer psychological, physical, and sexual assault by labor agents and employers.

Nongovernmental organizations and the Indonesian embassy in Kuala Lumpur have received thousands of complaints from maids about working conditions, wages or abuse in the past few years.

Present scenario:

The international community is not interested because there is true demand for illegal migrants.

However, Deputy Home Minister Datuk Tan Chai Ho has rebuffed the claims by saying that Malaysia has not received any report from any party regarding the ill treatment of Indonesian migrant workers.


What could be done?

Domestic workers in Malaysia are being abused because government policies in both countries fail to protect them. Thus, certain legislations should be formulated that may legally protect the migrant workers especially women. Regular monitoring of the labor agencies should be done.

Workplace conditions in Malaysia should be checked and special forums should be made where the victims may speak out against violence.

In addition, the domestic workers must get access to health care as well. Efforts should be made that may prevent trafficking into forced labor.



Source:Hindustanis.org

The statusof muslim women in india

THE status of Muslim women in India, as documented by the book Unequal Citizens: A Study of Muslim Women in India does not come as a surprise but is nevertheless a <15,0m,,0>depressing picture of glaring inequality.

Based on the first ever national survey of 10,000 Muslim and Hindu women in India, the book, written by Zoya Hasan and Ritu Menon, and published by Oxford University Press, covers issues like education, work, socio-economic status, marriage decision-making powers, mobility, domestic violence and political participation of Muslim women.

Educational deprivation

The study finds that 26 per cent of educated Muslim women have illiterate husbands, a shocking indicator of the low levels of education even among Muslim men. Since boys are frequent dropouts from schools, girls who do reach high school levels, are made to discontinue because they'll be "over qualified" in the marriage market! And hence you have a ceiling put on Muslim girls' education.

In higher education, Muslim women have an abysmal share at 3.56 per cent, even lower than Dalit women (4.25). The authors note that Scheduled Caste women have probably managed a better percentage in higher education thanks to reservation. "But in the bleak scenario, there are some interesting and surprising facts. Muslims in the north have extremely high illiteracy levels (74.36 per cent) and very low proportion in higher secondary level education (6.97 per cent)." But in higher education their share rises to 8.8 per cent, marginally lower than the south (9.11per cent), and higher than in the urban west and east. This suggests that despite a small base of literacy in the north, a decent number manage to go to college.

But overall the Muslim girl child does face educational deprivation. The constitutional goal of eight years of schooling remains a dream with a Muslim girl getting barely 2.7 years of schooling compared to 3.8 years of a Hindu girl. About 59 per cent never get into school and less than 10 per cent complete it. "But Muslims are not uniformly poor and uneducated; they are much better off in the south and also in the west and certainly better off than their counterparts in the west and east zones. The considerable better education levels of Muslims in the south, and to some extent in the west, belie the view that religion denies them education," point out the authors.

Work: double disadvantage

In conservative and patriarchal areas like Bihar and U.P., where work is treated as a mark of low status, only poor women or those from high income groups go out to work. Thanks to land ownership patterns in rural areas and their exclusion from low-level jobs in urban areas, Muslim women's employment in the farm sector and elsewhere is low. We're told that first as Muslims and then as women, they are twice as disadvantaged in accessing jobs, even low-level jobs in the informal sector. This is borne out by National Sample Survey data that shows that only eight per cent of uneducated Muslim women find employment as casual labour in public works, compared to 21 per cent of Hindu uneducated women.

Through the 1990s, though women's employment percentage improved, Muslim women's number didn't go up, perhaps due to lack of skills.

As at work, their status in the home is a dismal story too. The MWS reports that 20 per cent experience verbal and physical abuse in the marital home, over 80 per cent from their husbands. A surprising revelation in the book is that "Hindu women experience greater levels of violence than Muslims in all the four zones." Rural women are worse off and domestic violence incidence decreases with higher levels of income but this could be due to under-reporting by the educated and better-off women for "fear of further violence, shame and rejection that are powerful reasons for women's silence." Extreme and chronic poverty, women's economic dependence and lack of viable options outside marriage and a deeply entrenched culture of male authority makes domestic violence endemic in India, the study concludes.

Decision-making

Coming to the important area of decision making, clearly an indicator of women's empowerment and importance in the family, the study made a "modest attempt to understand the dynamics of decision making" among both Hindu and Muslim women. The queries fell into three broad clusters; work related, housed and family related and expenditure, income and investment related. Questions were asked about who makes the decisions on women working outside the house, their income and how that income is spent and by whom; and how and when a woman is allowed to begin work outside the home and when she has to stop.

One third of the respondents in both communities said they made decisions on household expenditure and children's education jointly with their husbands, and an equal number said these decisions were made only by their husbands. Only 10 per cent of the women — both Hindu and Muslim — said that they take independent decisions on these issues. Predictably, major purchase or investment decisions are made by a negligible per cent.

Most shocking is the revelation on women's mobility; a whopping 86 per cent of Hindu and Muslim women surveyed said they needed permission from their husbands to move out of the house. The chapter on decision-making concludes that the combination of extreme material deprivation, neglect and patriarchal control intensifies women's subordination. It quotes Srilata Batliwala to say that men's traditional power over women "is reinforced by control over her body and physical mobility; by the right to abdicate from all responsibility for housework and care of the children, the right to physically abuse or violate her; the right to spend family income on personal pleasures (and vices); the right to abandon her to take other wives".

Participation in politics

There are no surprises here. While 85 per cent women have voted in elections, a staggering 95 per cent has never participated in an election campaign. On contesting elections, nearly 80 per cent of Hindu and Muslim women said, "No thank you". Though keen voters — Muslim women being keener than Hindu women — a minuscule proportion, engage in political activities like election meetings or campaigning.

Access to mass media

The study found Muslim women's living standard to be lower than that of even the OBCs, and well below that of upper caste Hindus. On consumer durables it found 45 per cent households with TV sets, 40 per cent with radios, and only six and 19 per cent own refrigerators in rural and urban areas respectively.

The study found 43 per cent Muslim women literate compared to 59 per cent Hindu women. But only 20 per cent of Muslim women responded to questions on reading habits and of these only a third said they read newspapers and magazines regularly. About 45 per cent Hindu and 42 percent Muslim women watch TV regularly.

The book should serve as a wake up call to the Muslim leadership on the urgent need for better education, for men as well as women, and targeted campaigns to delay marriage — the average age of marriage for a Muslim girl is 15.6 years. In rural India, it is a shocking 13.9 years. More than purdah impacting a Muslim woman's mobility, it is the attitude of the men that puts shackles on their mobility — for education or work.

Overall, the findings are a grim statement on the gender scene in India, because the authors say that the differences between Hindu and Muslim women, be it in marriage, autonomy, mobility or domestic violence, are so insignificant that they point to similar cultural practices and patriarchal control across communities.



Source:Hindustanis.org

Status of Women in Medieval Karnataka

One would expect that in medieval times women were almost like domesticated pets caged in the house, considering all the equality and libertarian movements the mankind has gone though. Lawmaker Manu's oft-quoted statement that women are not worthy of freedom strengthens this expectation. However, the inscriptions, literary sources and sculptures of the period give an astonishingly different picture of status of women in South India in medieval times.

According to B.P.Mazumbar, Northern India did not have any women administrators of provinces or kingdoms during this period. In contrast, Karnataka had women who administered villages, towns, divisions and heralded social and religious institutions. Piriyaketaladevi, a queen of Chalukya Vikramaditya VI ruled three villages. According to an inscripture of 1148 A.D. Lakkadevi was a village headman. Jakkiabbe ably administered seventy villages after premature death of her husband. Mailalladevi, a senior queen of Someshwara-I ruled the important province of Banavasi comprising 12,000 villages.

It is evident from a inscripture of 1187 A.D. that the Jain nuns enjoyed the same amount of freedom as their male counterparts. There were female trustees, priestesses, philanthropists, musicians and scholars.

The historical sources of the period are abundantly filled with stories of accomplished women of the time. Shantaladevi, the Hoysala queen was an expert in singing, dancing and instrumental music. Fig 242 shows her in a graceful dancing pose. She also held durbar with her illustrious husband Vishnuvardhana. Fig 244 shows a rare carving where a woman is shown writing.






























COURTESANS, TEMPLE GIRLS AND ACTRESSES

Description of courtesans had become an essential part of classics. They were recognized, tolerated and at times held respectable place in the society.

Dedicating girls to temples was an ancient practice and by the tenth century, it had become well established. They were called Devadasis (servant of God) and served priests, and noble men. Temple grants included expenses for Devadasis. Some of them were experts of arts including singing, dancing and acting performances. The institution of Devadasis continued sporadically in India till recent times .




























BONDMAIDS AND WORKING WOMEN

All menial tasks like cleaning in temples and private households were undertaken by bondmaids whose position was not high in the society. The saint-poet basavesware tired to better their lot and that of their children by declaring that after initiation into Veerashaivism, the latter were to be considered holy and duly honored.

In addition to their household duties, women gave a helping hand to their men in their vocations. The occupation of a nurse (dhatri) was quite common. Women also worked in fields.

Basaveshwara's theory of Kayaka (Kayakave-Kailasa) , led many women to realize God through their humble occupations.

INSTITUTION OF MARRIAGE

Marriage was compulsory for all the girls except for those opted for asceticism. Brahman girls were married between ages 8 and 10 from sixth or century onwards up to the modern times. Polygamy was permitted to all who could afford and it was especially popular among Kshatriaysa for political reasons. According to Mansasollsa, the king should marry a Kshatria girl of noble birth for a chief queen though he is permitted to have Vaisya or Sudra wives for pleasure.

SATI OR SAHAGAMANA

sati was prevalent among certain classes of women, who either took the vow or deemed it a great honor to die on the funeral pyres of their husbands. Ibn Batuta observed that Sati was considered praiseworthy by the Hindus, without however being obligatory. The Agni Purana declares that the woman who commits sahagamana goes to heaven and Medhatiti pronounced that Sati was like suicide and was against the Shastras. In an age of such divergent views, women of the Deccan followed a middle path. They were not coerced, although several wives committed Sati. The majority of the widows did not undergo Sati. (see:love?,duty?or sacrifice?)

Mahasati stones were erected in memory of brave women who committed Sati and are periodically worshipped. The number of such stones are a few, indicating a small number of such women. There are no instances of remarriage of widows. (see also: hero-stones)

WIDOWS

Alberuni writes that Indian women preferred self immolation by Sati to the suffering of life of a widow. Ibn Batuta also felt that the plight of widows was miserable. A widow was considered an inauspicious person and was prohibited from wearing colorful clothes, ornaments, decorate hair, as is seen from descriptions in literature.

However, there are no concrete pointers to indicate that widows had to shave their heads, as became the norm in later years (see: plight of widows in india)

OTHER NOTES

A few women of the time who despised their husbands, attracted other men by wanton behaviors. A sculpture in bhatkal depicts a case of a woman's infidelity. A husband catches the paramour of his wife red-handed and is about to punish him. The wife is shown as pleading for her lover (figure 246).

There was a class of men who believed in the superiority of women. Somadeva thought that discrimination between men and women was valid in respect of physical ability, but the latter were superior in intellectual ability. Achale was a lady of rare distinction and it is said that Chandramauli, a minister of the Hoysala Kings was a befitting husband for her. This is an expression used contrary to the normal belief of a wife being worthy of her husband.

The women of medieval deccan were complimentary to men and not competitive in all fields and they together made a complete unit. Women faced hardships bravely, and excelled in the field of charity, exhibiting their sense of social service. They were good housewives, pursued fine arts and when given a chance, shone as good administrators and fought battles. In spiritual field also, they made their contributions.



Source:Hindustanis.org

Friday, February 2, 2007

Veil off - one woman's 'life-changing' decision

Egyptian ex-fashion model Naira El-Sheikh wore 'hijab', the Islamic headscarf, for more than five years. Her friends considered her 'an icon' for choosing 'piety' over anything else.

Two weeks ago, Naira decided to take it off - the scarf that has been covering her hair from peering eyes and which completed the traditional conservative dress that Muslims generally wear in the Islamic world.

'When I made this decision there were extreme reactions from the people I know,' said Naira. 'Some people called it an overdue correction of a mistake. 'Welcome back!' they said. And others would not want to talk to me. I haven't welcomed any of these reactions.'

According to 25-year-old Naira, women from her age have been put under great pressure because of how the Egyptian society perceives Hijab and in turn veiled woman.

A veiled woman is not allowed the same 'liberties' that an unveiled woman is, and is usually held to different standards.

'I do believe Hijab is not just a dress code, it's a statement, a behaviour and an attitude that you embrace,' said Naira. Nevertheless, she said that the society 'has come to expect so much from a veiled women'.

Upon donning the veil, the woman has to adopt certain conformist behaviour that include maintaining a low-profile in public and abstaining from 'casual relationships' with the opposite sex.

Although the Koran does not outline this strict understanding of the veil, Naira explained that she tried to strictly abide by this socially-backed 'behavioural code' when she first took the veil on.

'I drastically changed my lifestyle but still it did not fit the expectations of some hardliners from both extremes - the so-called liberals and the so-called conservatives,' she observed.

Naira wore the headscarf, but juggled baggie pants, long skirts and long-sleeved shirts to preserve her individual style. Islamic scholars still disagree about the extent of how a Muslim woman should 'cover up'.

The Muslims' holiest book clearly states that a woman should cover her cleavage and dress modestly - but any other restrictions on dress remain debatable.

So the form of Hijab as many know it - one that includes headscarves and long robes - has been only common in Egypt and other neighbouring countries for the past few decades, when a wave of 'piety' started to engulf some countries in the Middle East.

In the early 1990s particularly, Egypt transformed into a more conservative state where an estimated 70 percent of Muslim women took on the Hijab.

Some women even started covering their hair with scarves while preserving their dress style that included wearing tight pants and body-hugging tops.

TV preacher Amr Khaled was one cleric who is considered to have introduced this neo-Islamic conservative trend.

Khaled, who abandoned the traditional scholarly robe for a suit and a tie, seemed to use a different tone of preaching that quickly captivated many of Egypt's younger people, many who usually left the mosque with teary eyes and a strong resolve to get closer to God.

Prayer, fasting and reading Koran became more common and Hijab for the girls was no exception.

Although scholars are divided about whether the scarf and the traditional Islamic gown is 'an obligation', Khaled and several preachers who gradually rose to popularity, vehemently advocate it.

The rise of 'conservatism' seemed to go out of proportion, as certain apparel like the opaque face-veils and head-to-toe cloaks began to spread. This was also coupled by the 'inactivity' of some women who chose to confine themselves at home after donning the veil.

Many liberals feared that this trend might introduce to Egypt elements of 'backwardness' that are imported from Arab countries which promote a more rigid form of Islamic practice.

In a newspaper column, Islamic intellectual Mohammad Emara wrote against what he called 'Islamic transgressors' who use Hijab as a 'tool' to oppress Muslim women.

Emara said these people, who are engaged in a power struggle with women, force upon them a stringent lifestyle that is not necessarily compatible with what Islam preaches, and which is 'more political' than it is religious.

Caught in the row between the contemptuous liberals and the uncompromising hardliners, some young women like Naira continue to struggle for 'a balance' between Islamic practice and living their life to the fullest 'without sin'.

Even with a veil on, Naira - a single mother - remained committed to a full-time day job as a business development manager, among other activities.

For her, the decision to take it on or to abandon it is both personal and religious - one that cannot be decided by preachers and their loyalists in the mosques.



Source:Hindustanis.org

Sunday, January 28, 2007

Gandhi and Status of Women








Women's status at the time

When Gandhiji assumed India's leadership the average life span of an Indian woman was only twenty seven years. Babies and the pregnant women ran a high risk of dying young. Child marriage was very common and widows were in very large number. Only 2% of the women had any kind of education and women did not have an identity of their own. In North India, they practiced the purdah (veil) system. Women could not go out of the house unless accompanied by men and the face covered with cloth. The fortunate ones who could go to school had to commute in covered carts (tangas).

It is in this context that we have to recognize the miracle of Gandhi's work. Gandhiji claimed that a woman is completely equal to a man and practiced it in strict sense. Thousands and millions of women, educated and illiterate, house wives and widows, students and elderly participated in the India's freedom movement because his influence. For Gandhiji, the freedom fight was not political alone; it was also an economic and social reform of a national proportion. After a couple of decades, this equality became very natural in India. After India's freedom (in1947) and adoption of constitution (1950), emphasized equality of women, when Hindu code was formulated, the population was not even impressed. They said -"Of course, it had to be done."

Woman and Progress

Gandhiji always advocated a complete reform which he called "Sarvodaya" meaning comprehensive progress. He believed that the difference between men and women was only physical and has expressed several times in his writings that in many matters especially those of tolerance, patience, and sacrifice the Indian woman is superior to the male. You will discover this when you read his articles from "Young India" and "Harijan". During the 40 years of his political career, he only found more reasons to deepen his faith in what he wrote. He never had a specific program for women, but women had a integral role to play in all his programs. I feel that this is one of the reasons why women participated in his programs so overwhelmingly.

Gandhiji declared that there is no school better than home and there is no teacher better than parents. He said men and women are equal, but not identical. "Intellectually, mentally, and spiritually, woman is equivalent to a male and she can participate in every activity."

Indian society is a male dominated one. Gandhiji has illustrated in his autobiography (The stories of my experiments with truth) how early in his marriage he too wanted to dominate his wife. He often said that paternal society is the root cause of inequality. In his book, there is a very touching chapter about when he asked his wife to clean a public toilet and the resulting conflict between him and his wife. He has written how ashamed he was of himself, and how he took care not to hurt her anymore for the rest of his life. Even though there was big gap between him and his wife intellectually, it did not affect their family life. He has said that Kasturba followed her husband more than was expected of her. Gandhiji followed Bramacharya (strict discipline of food, drinks, and of celibacy) from a very young age, but when his wife passed away, Gandhi grieved that without Ba, his life would have been meaningless. That was the bondage of his 62 years of marriage.

Woman and Social Service

Gandhiji struggled very hard to understand a woman's physical and mental pain. From a young age he introduced his wife and children to social sacrifice and service. He believed that service has to be performed for self-fulfillment, not for public consumption or exhibition. He believed that the publicity given to one's social service actually decrements the value of the service. He tried very hard to eliminate job indignity and bias based on caste system He tried to do the work of a barber, dhobi (washer man), and janitor to understand them and demonstrate that the work one does has no impact on one's status in the society. For me, the fact that he contributed a great deal in raising his children is very modern concept. On one occasion the white midwife would not show up for his wife's delivery and Gandhiji himself delivered his child. He helped wife with feeding, bathing, and toiletries of the infant. In western countries these days men are encouraged to be with their wives during the delivery and the men are supposed to pitch in with diaper changing, etc. Gandhiji practiced this very modern concept 90 years ago in his own family.

Role of Women











Womanhood is not restricted to the kitchen", he opined and felt that "Only when the woman is liberated from the slavery of the kitchen, that her true spirit may be discovered". It does not mean that women should not cook, but only that household responsibilities be shared among men, women and children. He wanted women to outgrow the traditional responsibilities and participate in the affairs of nation. He criticized Indian's passion for male progeny. He said that as long as we don't consider girls as natural as our boys our nation will be in a dark eclipse.

Child Widows








Gandhiji was especially considerate of the young widows. In the last 80 years, as a nation, if we have made any progress on the matter of child widows (girls used get married very early and after untimely deaths of their husbands, they were condemned to a life of great agony, shaving heads, living in isolation, and shunned by the society.) it is due to the reformers like Gandhiji and his contemporaries. Gandhiji once noted during his legendary travels across India that he never came across 13 year old who was not married. He declared the marriages in which the girls were not consulted were unholy. At that time in Madras presidency, the number of child widows were alarmingly large. He called upon the young to marry the widows and also to boycott child marriages. (It may be noted here that Gandhiji himself married when very young; he was thirteen.) The history of India knows of many such young men who married widows and went on to work as social reformers.

Temple women and Prostitutes

Gandhiji was very disturbed by the plight of this low caste untouchable section of the society, namely the Devadasis. (see also: the temple women) He was hurt by the miserable way the children of brothels were treated. He had made elaborate plans for their rehabilitation. He declared that protecting women's honor was important and as holy as protecting cows. His book "Women and Social Injustice" contains discussions of very deep thoughts and solutions on the topic. He felt that after India became free, the system of temple women and brothels must be abolished. Even though on paper we have abolished the system of Devadasis, rampant exploitation of women as sex servants has continued. There was no way Gandhiji could have predicted modern ways and means of prostitution (call girls, phone sex etc) but he certainly identified its social evil and tried to fight it.

Gandhiji's contribution for betterment of women in India

As we look back at the Indian history and compare the conditions of women before Gandhi's rise, and now, the progress we have made is quite enormous. A whole generation of women leaders came up influenced by Gandhi's vision. If today in India so many women can go to work in offices, educational institutions, and factories without fear or hesitation, the roots for such system were laid 90 years ago by Gandhiji and his followers.

As mentioned earlier, Gandhiji formulated India's freedom struggle as a comprehensive plan for women's development. Even though a lot of inequalities remain in our society, there is a fundamental agreement that men and women are equal. As Indians, we can be very proud that the same cannot be claimed even by so called "advanced nations". In Britain as well as in the U.S.A., women could not vote 75 years ago. But women's voting came very naturally to us from the beginning. About 100 years ago, the western woman could not own property, get a divorce or take the custody of her children. We just have to look at the life and struggles of Dr. annie besent to understand the status of western women during Gandhiji's time. The western women had to take to streets, overcome many stereotypes to establish themselves voting and other rights. But for us, political, economic and voting rights came so naturally through the constitution!

Legacy

Today, if Gandhi's agenda has fallen apart, it is due to Indian politics. The continued exploitation of women can be attributed to the degradation in moral values of the society, and utter poverty of our nation. We ignored the role of social service, job dignity, and self reliance. Once in a while we run into true volunteers (like Sushilamma - see visit to an ashram who believe in Gandhiji's ideals and have implemented his programs. I hope that at least a few of the younger generation take up Gandhiji's unfinished manifesto and work to eliminate social barriers facing women.



Source:Hindustanis.org

Status of Women in Medieval Karnataka










O
ne would expect that in medieval times women were almost like domesticated pets caged in the house, considering all the equality and libertarian movements the mankind has gone though. Lawmaker Manu's oft-quoted statement that women are not worthy of freedom strengthens this expectation. However, the inscriptions, literary sources and sculptures of the period give an astonishingly different picture of status of women in South India in medieval times.

According to B.P.Mazumbar, Northern India did not have any women administrators of provinces or kingdoms during this period. In contrast, Karnataka had women who administered villages, towns, divisions and heralded social and religious institutions. Piriyaketaladevi, a queen of Chalukya Vikramaditya VI ruled three villages. According to an inscripture of 1148 A.D. Lakkadevi was a village headman. Jakkiabbe ably administered seventy villages after premature death of her husband. Mailalladevi, a senior queen of Someshwara-I ruled the important province of Banavasi comprising 12,000 villages.

It is evident from a inscripture of 1187 A.D. that the Jain nuns enjoyed the same amount of freedom as their male counterparts. There were female trustees, priestesses, philanthropists, musicians and scholars.

The historical sources of the period are abundantly filled with stories of accomplished women of the time. Shantaladevi, the Hoysala queen was an expert in singing, dancing and instrumental music. Fig 242 shows her in a graceful dancing pose. She also held durbar with her illustrious husband Vishnuvardhana. Fig 244 shows a rare carving where a woman is shown writing.

COURTESANS, TEMPLE GIRLS AND ACTRESSES

Description of courtesans had become an essential part of classics. They were recognized, tolerated and at times held respectable place in the society.

Dedicating girls to temples was an ancient practice and by the tenth century, it had become well established. They were called Devadasis (servant of God) and served priests, and noble men. Temple grants included expenses for Devadasis. Some of them were experts of arts including singing, dancing and acting performances. The institution of Devadasis continued sporadically in India till recent times .

BONDMAIDS AND WORKING WOMEN

All menial tasks like cleaning in temples and private households were undertaken by bondmaids whose position was not high in the society. The saint-poet basaveshwara tried to better their lot and that of their children by declaring that after initiation into Veerashaivism, the latter were to be considered holy and duly honored.

In addition to their household duties, women gave a helping hand to their men in their vocations. The occupation of a nurse (dhatri) was quite common. Women also worked in fields.

Basaveshwara's theory of Kayaka (Kayakave-Kailasa) , led many women to realize God through their humble occupations.

INSTITUTION OF MARRIAGE

Marriage was compulsory for all the girls except for those opted for asceticism. Brahman girls were married between ages 8 and 10 from sixth or century onwards up to the modern times. Polygamy was permitted to all who could afford and it was especially popular among Kshatriaysa for political reasons. According to Mansasollsa, the king should marry a Kshatria girl of noble birth for a chief queen though he is permitted to have Vaisya or Sudra wives for pleasure.

SATI OR SAHAGAMANA

satiwas prevalent among certain classes of women, who either took the vow or deemed it a great honor to die on the funeral pyres of their husbands. Ibn Batuta observed that Sati was considered praiseworthy by the Hindus, without however being obligatory. The Agni Purana declares that the woman who commits sahagamana goes to heaven and Medhatiti pronounced that Sati was like suicide and was against the Shastras. In an age of such divergent views, women of the Deccan followed a middle path. They were not coerced, although several wives committed Sati. The majority of the widows did not undergo Sati.

Mahasati stones were erected in memory of brave women who committed Sati and are periodically worshipped. The number of such stones are a few, indicating a small number of such women. There are no instances of remarriage of widows.

WIDOWS

Alberuni writes that Indian women preferred self immolation by Sati to the suffering of life of a widow. Ibn Batuta also felt that the plight of widows was miserable. A widow was considered an inauspicious person and was prohibited from wearing colorful clothes, ornaments, decorate hair, as is seen from descriptions in literature.

However, there are no concrete pointers to indicate that widows had to shave their heads, as became the norm in later years .

OTHER NOTES

A few women of the time who despised their husbands, attracted other men by wanton behaviors. A sculpture in bhatkal depicts a case of a woman's infidelity. A husband catches the paramour of his wife red-handed and is about to punish him. The wife is shown as pleading for her lover .

There was a class of men who believed in the superiority of women. Somadeva thought that discrimination between men and women was valid in respect of physical ability, but the latter were superior in intellectual ability. Achale was a lady of rare distinction and it is said that Chandramauli, a minister of the Hoysala Kings was a befitting husband for her. This is an expression used contrary to the normal belief of a wife being worthy of her husband.

The women of medieval deccanwere complimentary to men and not competitive in all fields and they together made a complete unit. Women faced hardships bravely, and excelled in the field of charity, exhibiting their sense of social service. They were good housewives, pursued fine arts and when given a chance, shone as good administrators and fought battles. In spiritual field also, they made their contributions.


Source:Hindustanis.org

Saturday, January 27, 2007

Why do women love roses?





















In 6th century BC., the renowned lyric poet Anacreon of Greece sang that healing rose balm calms the heart that beats in agony.
According to 17th century pharmacologist N. Culpeper, "dried red rose petals in tincture or powder form will relieve heavy menstruation, hematemesis and other bleedings. Rose infusions in wine relieve headaches, toothaches, pain of the eyes, ears, throat and gums. It also cures pain in the abdomen and the uterus."
The remedial powers of the rose were also widely known in Asia. In the oldest known Chinese Book of Medicinal Plants, roses are deemed "effective for dropsy and constipation".
In recent years, our research proved that the rose flower contains Vitamin A, C and P and has medicinal effects such as relieving stress-induced fatigue, stiff shoulders, insomnia, stomachache and nervousness. And aside from all its medicinal effects, a bouquet of roses can certainly ease a stressful day and make your life much brighter.
Rose: queen of perfume
Rose de Mai
Did you know that most perfumes contain roses in their fragrance composition? Marilyn Monroe was probably unaware that the famous Chanel fragrance she wore to bed also contained rose essences.
Today, perfumes are made by blending 100 to 700 different types of essences. The type of essences blended as well as their composition are trade secrets. "White Rose Natural" is one of Shiseido's representative rose fragrances.
Jasmine is called King, and Rose the Queen of the numerous flowers that exude essential oils. Unlike jasmine whose strong scent is cherished by some but disliked by others, the rose enjoys unanimous popularity. It blends naturally with most other essences to help create the scent of one's preference.
In search of 1000 modern roses
Peace
There is a substantial difference between the scent of roses now being grown in parks and gardens, and the fragrant roses of Bulgaria, Turkey, France and Morocco cultivated for essential oils.
Taking note of this, Shiseido has conducted extensive analysis of the scent of modern roses. After studying over 1000 species for 8 years, a new aromatic chemical not contained in the original species were found in modern roses. This ingredient, of a moist green note with a phenolic spicy/powdery odor, is a characteristic common to all modern roses.
In contrast with the essence roses that have a smothering note, modern roses have a soft sweet note, as well as a refreshing note like a green violet. By analyzing these aromatic contents, Shiseido proved the difference between the two types of roses in terms of the ingredients they contained. More than 540 ingredients have been discovered in this manner so far.
Bulgaria: land of sweet-smelling roses
Bulgarian fields of roses
Today, there are basically two main regions that cultivate roses for exuding essences. The first is Bulgaria and Turkey that mainly cultivate improved species of R. damascena and the second is Southern France and Morocco that mainly cultivate R. centifolia.
Among them, the Bulgarian rose is especially well-known for its supreme quality, since Bulgarian soil and climatic conditions are said to be ideal for cultivating roses. Bulgaria is the main producer of roses for essences and exports more than 1300 to 1400 kilograms of essential oils annually.
1400 flowers are needed to obtain 1 gram of precious essential oil which is the natural exude of the rose. 3 tons of roses are needed to obtain 1 kilogram of essential oil.
When the flower-picking season comes in June and July, school closes and the whole family goes to the fields to pick the precious flowers. Picking starts as early as 4 in the morning and continues until 10 am. One picker will pick about 30 to 50 kilos of roses in a matter of six hours. Picking begins early to minimize the dissipation of aromatic contents by sun exposure, for this deteriorates the quality of the roses. The picked flowers are steamed at about 120°C, and are distilled for 3 hours to exude the essential oil of the rose, as well as rose water.


Source:Hindustanis.org

Sunday, January 21, 2007

Chronic Hunger and the Status of Women in India

You can tell the condition of a nation by looking at the status of its women.
- Jawaharlal Nehru

However much a mother may love her children, it is all but impossible for her to provide high-quality child care if she herself is poor and oppressed, illiterate and uninformed, anaemic and unhealthy, has five or six other children, lives in a slum or shanty, has neither clean water nor safe sanitation, and if she is without the necessary support either from health services, or from her society, or from the father of her childen.
-
Vulimiri Ramalingaswami, "The Asian Enigma"

The women who participate in and lead ecology movements in countries like India are not speaking merely as victims. Their voices are the voices of liberation and transformation. . . The women’s and ecology movements are therefore one, and are primarily counter-trends to a patriarchal maldevelopment.
-
Vandana Shiva

Amartya Sen - The Unheeded Conscience: We will lionise him, but will we ever listen to what he's saying?

Sen points out that when he took up issues of women's welfare, he was accused in India of voicing "foreign concerns." "I was told Indian women don't think like that about equality. But I would like to argue that if they don't think like that they should be given a real opportunity to think like that."
- Parmita Shastri, Outlook India, 1998

Executive Summary

The persistence of hunger and abject poverty in India and other parts of the world is due in large measure to the subjugation, marginalization and disempowerment of women. Women suffer from hunger and poverty in greater numbers and to a great degree then men. At the same time, it is women who bear the primary responsibility for actions needed to end hunger: education, nutrition, health and family income.

Looking through the lens of hunger and poverty, there are seven major areas of discrimination against women in India:

  • Malnutrition: India has exceptionally high rates of child malnutrition, because tradition in India requires that women eat last and least throughout their lives, even when pregnant and lactating. Malnourished women give birth to malnourished children, perpetuating the cycle.
  • Poor Health: Females receive less health care than males. Many women die in childbirth of easily prevented complications. Working conditions and environmental pollution further impairs women's health.
  • Lack of education: Families are far less likely to educate girls than boys, and far more likely to pull them out of school, either to help out at home or from fear of violence.
  • Overwork: Women work longer hours and their work is more arduous than men's, yet their work is unrecognized. Men report that "women, like children, eat and do nothing." Technological progress in agriculture has had a negative impact on women.
  • Unskilled: In women's primary employment sector - agriculture - extension services overlook women.
  • Mistreatment: In recent years, there has been an alarming rise in atrocities against women in India, in terms of rapes, assaults and dowry-related murders. Fear of violence suppresses the aspirations of all women. Female infanticide and sex-selective abortions are additional forms of violence that reflect the devaluing of females in Indian society.
  • Powerlessness: While women are guaranteed equality under the constitution, legal protection has little effect in the face of prevailing patriarchal traditions. Women lack power to decide who they will marry, and are often married off as children. Legal loopholes are used to deny women inheritance rights.

India has a long history of activism for women's welfare and rights, which has increasingly focused on women's economic rights. A range of government programs have been launched to increase economic opportunity for women, although there appear to be no existing programs to address the cultural and traditional discrimination against women that leads to her abject conditions.

The Inextricable Link

The greatest tragedy facing humanity today is the persistence of chronic hunger — an intolerable phenomenon that takes the lives of 24,000 of us every day. For fully one-fifth of humanity, life is a daily struggle to survive in conditions of relentless poverty. Day after day, the lives of one billion individuals are cut short or terribly diminished by chronic, persistent hunger. Day after day, one billion people are denied the opportunities they need to lead healthy and productive lives.

People living with chronic hunger exist in conditions of severe poverty. What they lack is the chance to change their situation, to develop their own self-sufficiency. The most potent confirmation of this fact can be seen in the lives of women. They, along with their children, are the main victims of hunger, and they are also most lacking in opportunities to end their own and their families’ hunger.

The Hunger Project has come to the recognition that the persistence of hunger in India — and elsewhere in the world where hunger is still an overriding social issue — is, to a large degree, due to the subjugation, marginalization and disempowerment of women. Furthermore, women’s suppression is rooted in the very fabric of Indian society — in traditions, in religious doctrine and practices, within the educational and legal systems, and within families.

Ironically, much of the essential work of ending hunger rests in women’s hands.

Traditionally, women bear primary responsibility for the well-being of their families. Yet they are systematically denied access to the resources they need to fulfill their responsibility, which includes education, health care services, job training, and access and freedom to use family planning services.

In order to gain a shared understanding of the condition of the status of women in India and its impact on the persistence of hunger, this document surveys papers done by leading scholars in Indian development issues. It is organized in a framework of seven issues that characterize the plight of resource-poor women, with a focus on rural women, in India: malnutrition, poor health, lack of education, overwork, lack of skills, mistreatment and powerlessness.

The link between these issues and the persistence of hunger in India was underscored in a 1996 study: The Asian Enigma, by Vulimiri Ramalingaswami:

In short, the poor care that is afforded to girls and women by their husbands and by elders is the first major reason for levels of child malnutrition that are markedly higher in South Asia than anywhere else in the world.

India: An Overview

India, with a population of 989 million, is the world’s second most populous country. Of that number, 120 million are women who live in poverty.

India has 16 percent of the world’s population, but only 2.4 percent of its land, resulting in great pressures on its natural resources.

Over 70 percent of India’s population currently derive their livelihood from land resources, which includes 84 percent of the economically-active women.

India is one of the few countries where males significantly outnumber females, and this imbalance has increased over time. India’s maternal mortality rates in rural areas are among the world’s highest. From a global perspective, Indian accounts for 19 percent of all lives births and 27 percent of all maternal deaths.

"There seems to be a consensus that higher female mortality between ages one and five and high maternal mortality rates result in a deficit of females in the population. Chatterjee (1990) estimates that deaths of young girls in India exceed those of young boys by over 300,000 each year, and every sixth infant death is specifically due to gender discrimination." Of the 15 million baby girls born in India each year, nearly 25 percent will not live to see their 15th birthday.

"Although India was the first country to announce an official family planning program in 1952, its population grew from 361 million in 1951 to 844 million in 1991. India’s total fertility rate of 3.8 births per woman can be considered moderate by world standards, but the sheer magnitude of population increase has resulted in such a feeling of urgency that containment of population growth is listed as one of the six most important objectives in the Eighth Five-Year Plan."

Since 1970, the use of modern contraceptive methods has risen from 10 percent to 40 percent, with great variance between northern and southern India. The most striking aspect of contraceptive use in India is the predominance of sterilization, which accounts for more than 85 percent of total modern contraception use, with female sterilization accounting for 90 percent of all sterilizations.

The Indian constitution grants women equal rights with men, but strong patriarchal traditions persist, with women’s lives shaped by customs that are centuries old. In most Indian families, a daughter is viewed as a liability, and she is conditioned to believe that she is inferior and subordinate to men. Sons are idolized and celebrated. May you be themother of a hundred sons is a common Hindu wedding blessing.

The origin of the Indian idea of appropriate female behavior can be traced to the rules laid down by Manu in 200 B.C.: "by a young girl, by a young woman, or even by an aged one, nothing must be done independently, even in her own house". "In childhood a female must be subject to her father, in youth to her husband, when her lord is dead to her sons; a woman must never be independent."

A study of women in the Swayam Shikshan Prayog (SSP), based in 20 villages in four districts in Maharashtra state was introduced in this way:

The primary issue all women in the SSP were struggling with was that of everyday survival. Insufficient incomes and the lack of employment were reported to be their most pressing concerns. Survival is a constant preoccupation and at its most basic, survival means food (Chambers 1983). The most common problems were the lack of basic amenities such as food, water, fuel, fodder and health facilities. In addition, the deterioration of the natural environment and the fact that many of their traditional occupations were no longer viable were conditions that were making it increasingly hard for women to continue sustaining their families, as they had done in the past.

SSP is a loose, informal network of women’s collectives, voluntary organizations, action groups and unions.

WOMEN ARE MALNOURISHED

The exceptionally high rates of malnutrition in South Asia are rooted deeply in the soil of inequality between men and women.

"…the poor care that is afforded to girls and women by their husbands and by elders is the first major reason for levels of child malnutrition that are markedly higher in South Asia than anywhere else in the world."

This point is made in the article, The Asian Enigma, published by Unicef in the 1996 Progress of Nations, in which the rates of childhood malnutrition in South Asia are compared with those in Africa. We learn that malnutrition is far worse in South Asia, directly due to the fact that women in South Asia have less voice and freedom of movement than in Africa. "Judgement and self-expression and independence largely denied, millions of women in South Asia have neither the knowledge nor the means nor the freedom to act in their own and their children’s best interests."

"Gender disparities in nutrition are evident from infancy to adulthood. In fact, gender has been the most statistically significant determinant of malnutrition among young children and malnutrition is a frequent direct or underlying cause of death among girls below age 5. Girls are breast-fed less frequently and for shorter durations in infancy; in childhood and adulthood, males are fed first and better. Adult women consume approximately 1,000 fewer calories per day than men according to one estimate from Punjab. Comparison of household dietary intake studies in different parts of the country shows that nutritional equity between males and females is lower in northern than in southern states."

Nutritional deprivation has two major consequences for women: they never reach their full growth potential and anaemia. Both are risk factors in pregnancy, with anaemia ranging from 40-50 percent in urban areas to 50-70 percent in rural areas. This condition complicates childbearing and result in maternal and infant deaths, and low birth weight infants.

One study found anaemia in over 95 percent of girls ages 6-14 in Calcutta, around 67 percent in the Hyderabad area, 73 percent in the New Delhi area, and about 18 percent in the Madras area. This study states, "The prevalence of anaemia among women ages 15-24 and 25-44 years follows similar patterns and levels. Besides posing risks during pregnancy, anaemia increases women’s susceptibility to diseases such as tuberculosis and reduces the energy women have available for daily activities such as household chores, child care, and agricultural labor. Any severely anaemic individual is taxed by most physical activities, including walking at an ordinary pace.

WOMEN ARE IN POOR HEALTH

Surviving through a normal life cycle is a resource-poor woman’s greatest challenge.

"The practice of breast-feeding female children for shorter periods of time reflects the strong desire for sons. If women are particularly anxious to have a male child, they may deliberately try to become pregnant again as soon as possible after a female is born. Conversely, women may consciously seek to avoid another pregnancy after the birth of a male child in order to give maximum attention to the new son."

A primary way that parents discriminate against their girl children is through neglect during illness. When sick, little girls are not taken to the doctor as frequently as are their brothers. A study in Punjab shows that medical expenditures for boys are 2.3 times higher than for girls.

As adults, women get less health care than men. They tend to be less likely to admit that they are sick and they’ll wait until their sickness has progressed before they seek help or help is sought for them. Studies on attendance at rural primary health centers reveal that more males than females are treated in almost all parts of the country, with differences greater in northern hospitals than southern ones, pointing to regional differences in the value placed on women. Women’s socialization to tolerate suffering and their reluctance to be examined by male personnel are additional constraints in their getting adequate health care.

Maternal Mortality

India’s maternal mortality rates in rural areas are among the highest in the world.

A factor that contributes to India’s high maternal mortality rate is the reluctance to seek medical care for pregnancy — it is viewed as a temporary condition that will disappear. The estimates nationwide are that only 40-50 percent of women receive any antenatal care. Evidence from the states of Bihar, Rajasthan, Orissa, Uttar Pradesh, Maharashtra and Gujarat find registration for maternal and child health services to be as low as 5-22 percent in rural areas and 21-51 percent in urban areas.

Even a woman who has had difficulties with previous pregnancies is usually treated with home remedies only for three reasons: the decision that a pregnant woman seek help rests with the mother-in-law and husband; financial considerations; and fear that the treatment may be more harmful than the malady.

It is estimated that pregnancy-related deaths account for one-quarter of all fatalities among women aged 15 to 29, with well over two-thirds of them considered preventable. For every maternal death in India, an estimated 20 more women suffer from impaired health. One village-level study of rural women in Maharashtra determined on the basis of physical examinations that some 92 percent suffered from one or more gynecological disorder.

Contraception Use

Women’s health is harmed by lack of access to and the poor quality of reproductive services.

"About 24.6 million couples, representing roughly 18 percent of all married women, want no more children but are not using contraception. (Operations Research Group, 1990). The causes of this unmet need remain poorly understood, but a qualitative study in Tamil Nadu suggests that women’s lack of decision-making power in the family, opportunity costs involved in seeking contraception, fear of child death, and poor quality of contraceptive service all play an important role." (Ravindran 1993).

Some estimates suggest that some 5 million abortions are performed annually in India, with the large majority being illegal. As a result, abortion-related mortality is high. Although abortion has been legal since 1972 in India, "studies suggest that although official policy seeks to make pregnancy-termination services widely available, in practice guidelines on abortion limit access to services, particularly in rural areas. In 1981, of the 6,200 physicians trained to perform abortions, only 1,600 were working in rural areas."

Job impact on Maternal Health

Working conditions result in premature and stillbirths.

The tasks performed by women are usually those that require them to be in one position for long periods of time, which can adversely affect their reproductive health. A study in a rice-growing belt of coastal Maharashtra found that 40 percent of all infant deaths occurred in the months of July to October. The study also found that a majority of births were either premature or stillbirths. The study attributed this to the squatting position that had to be assumed during July and August, the rice transplanting months.

Impact of Pollution on Women

Women’s health is further harmed by air and water pollution and lack of sanitation.

The impact of pollution and industrial wastes on health is considerable. In Environment, Development and the Gender Gap, Sandhya Venkateswaran asserts that "the high incidence of malnutrition present amongst women and their low metabolism and other health problems affect their capacity to deal with chemical stress. The smoke from household biomass (made up of wood, dung and crop residues) stoves within a three-hour period is equivalent to smoking 20 packs of cigarettes. For women who spend at least three hours per day cooking, often in a poorly ventilated area, the impact includes eye problems, respiratory problems, chronic bronchitis and lung cancer. One study quoted by WHO in 1991 found that pregnant women cooking over open biomass stoves had almost a 50 percent higher chance of stillbirth.

Anaemia makes a person more susceptible to carbon monoxide toxicity, which is one of the main pollutants in the biomass smoke. Given the number of Indian women who are anaemic — 25 to 30 percent in the reproductive age group and almost 50 percent in the third trimester — this adds to their vulnerability to carbon monoxide toxicity.

Additionally, with an increasing population, diseases caused by waste disposal, such as hookworm, are rampant. People who work barefooted are particularly susceptible, and it has been found that hookworm is directly responsible for the high percentage of anaemia among rural women.

WOMEN ARE UNEDUCATED

Women and girls receive far less education than men, due both to social norms and fears of violence.

India has the largest population of non-school-going working girls.

India’s constitution guarantees free primary school education for both boys and girls up to age 14. This goal has been repeatedly reconfirmed, but primary education in India is not universal. Overall, the literacy rate for women is 39 percent versus 64 percent for men. The rate for women in the four large northern states — Bihar, Uttar Pradesh, Rajasthan and Madhya Pradesh — is lower than the national average: it was 25 percent in 1991. Attendance rates from the 1981 census suggest that no more than 1/3 of all girls (and a lower proportion of rural girls) aged 5-14 are attending school.

Although substantial progress has been achieved since India won its independence in 1947, when less than 8 percent of females were literate, the gains have not been rapid enough to keep pace with population growth: there were 16 million more illiterate females in 1991 than in 1981.

Sonalde Desai in Gender Inequalities and Demographic Behavior asserts that "parents’ reluctance to educate daughters has its roots in the situation of women. Parents have several incentives for not educating their daughters. Foremost is the view that education of girls brings no returns to parents and that their future roles, being mainly reproductive and perhaps including agricultural labor, require no formal education. As more and more boys are engaged in education, there is a growing reliance on the labor of girls. Girls are increasingly replacing their brothers on the farm while carrying on their usual responsibilities in housework. A large proportion of the roughly 40 million "nonworking" girls who are not in school are kept at home because of responsibilities in housework."

The role of parents is to deliver a chaste daughter to her husband’s family. Sonalde Desai goes on to point out that "another disincentive for sending daughters to school is a concern for the protection of their virginity. When schools are located at a distance, when teachers are male, and when girls are expected to study along with boys, parents are often unwilling to expose their daughters to the potential assault on their virginity."

There is little response to counter these obstacles: school hours remain inflexible to the labor demands of girls; many villages do not have a school; and fewer than 1/3 of India’s primary and middle-school teachers are women.

According to Mapping Progress, "educational funds were cut by 801.3 million rupees in the 1991-92 budget. Funds for the mass literacy movement, in which women participate enthusiastically, have been reduced by 5 percent from the previous year. Budgetary provisions for non-formal education have been cut by 17 percent, leading to closure of many night schools and adult education programs in which working-class women participate. Reduction in government expenditures on higher education and encouragement to private colleges will reduce women’s opportunities for higher education since privatization in education promotes only male-dominated professional and technical courses, as they are lucrative."

WOMEN ARE OVERWORKED

Women work longer hours and their work is more arduous than men’s. Still, men report that "women, like children, eat and do nothing."

Hours worked

Women work roughly twice as many as many hours as men.

Women’s contribution to agriculture — whether it be subsistence farming or commercial agriculture — when measured in terms of the number of tasks performed and time spent, is greater than men. "The extent of women’s contribution is aptly highlighted by a micro study conducted in the Indian Himalayas which found that on a one-hectare farm, a pair of bullocks works 1,064 hours, a man 1,212 hours and a woman 3,485 hours in a year."

In Andhra Pradesh, (Mies 1986) found that the work day of an woman agricultural labourer during the agricultural season lasts for 15 hours, from 4 am to 8 pm, with an hour’s rest in between. Her male counterpart works for seven to eight hours, from 5 am to 10 am or 11 am and from 3 pm to 5 pm.

Another study on time and energy spent by men and women on agricultural work (Batliwala 1982) found that 53 percent of the total human hours per household are contributed by women as compared to 31 percent by men. The remaining contribution comes from children.

The linking of agricultural activities to male dominance is described by Roy Burman (in Menon 1991):

The anxiety of man to monopolize his skill in plough culture is reflected in the taboo that is observed almost all over India, against the women’s handling the plough. In many societies, she is not even allowed to touch it.

Mies further observed that "whereas operations performed by men were those that entailed the use of machinery and draught animals, thereby using animal, hydraulic, mechanical or electrical energy, women almost always relied on manual labour, using only their own energy." Rice transplantations, the most arduous and labour intensive task in rice cultivation, is carried out entirely by women without the help of any tools.

"Girls learn to assist their mothers in almost all tasks, and from the age of 10 years participate fully in the agricultural work done by women. Mies cites the case of Laxmi, a three-year-old infant who, along with her mother, pulled seedlings for transplanting. Boys on the other hand were seldom seen transplanting or weeding though they did help out in ploughing or watering the fields."

"Not only do women perform more tasks, their work is also more arduous than that undertaken by men. Both transplantation and weeding require women to spend the whole day and work in muddy soil with their hands. Moreover, they work the entire day under the intensely hot sun while men’s work, such as ploughing and watering the fields, is invariably carried out early in the morning before the sun gets too hot. Mies argues that because women’s work, unlike men’s, does not involve implements and is based largely on human energy, it is considered unskilled and hence less productive. On this basis, women are invariably paid lower wages, despite the fact that they work harder and for longer hours than do men."

In contrast, a study in Uttar Pradesh reports that men "only reluctantly conceded that their womenfolk really work. The researchers in this area were repeatedly told that women, like children, simply eat food and do nothing."

The invisibility of women’s work

Women’s work is rarely recognized.

Many maintain that women’s economic dependence on men impacts their power within the family. With increased participation in income-earning activities, not only will there be more income for the family, but gender inequality should be reduced. This issue is particularly salient in India because studies show a very low level of female participation in the labor force. This under-reporting is attributed to the frequently held view that women’s work is not economically productive.

In a report of the National Commission on Self-Employed Women and Women in the Informal Sector, the director of social welfare in one state said, "There are no women in any unorganized sector in our state." When the Commission probed and asked, "Are there any women who go to the forest to collect firewood? Do any of the women in rural areas have cattle?" the director responded with, "Of course, there are many women doing that type of work." Working women are invisible to most of the population.

If all activities — including maintenance of kitchen gardens and poultry, grinding food grains, collecting water and firewood, etc. — are taken into account, then 88 percent of rural housewives and 66 percent of urban housewives can be considered as economically productive.

Women’s employment in family farms or businesses is rarely recognized as economically productive, either by men or women. And, any income generated from this work is generally controlled by the men. Such work is unlikely to increase women’s participation in allocating family finances. In a 1992 study of family-based texile workers, male children who helped in a home-based handloom mill were given pocket money, but the adult women and girls were not.

The impact of technology on women

The shift from subsistence to a market economy has a dramatic negative impact on women.

According to Sandhya Venkateswaran, citing Shiva, the Green Revolution, which focused on increasing yields of rice and wheat, entailed a shift in inputs from human to technical. Women’s participation, knowledge and inputs were marginalized, and their role shift from being "primary producers to subsidiary workers."

Where technology has been introduced in areas where women worked, women labourers have often been displaced by men. Threshing of grain was almost exclusively a female task, and with the introduction of automatic grain threshers — which are only operated by men — women have lost an important source of income.

Combine harvesters leave virtually no residue. This means that this source of fodder is no longer available to women, which has a dramatic impact on women’s workload. So too, as cattle dung is being used as fertilizer, there is less available for fuel for cooking.

"Commercialization and the consequent focus on cash crops has led to a situation where food is lifted straight from the farm to the market. The income accrued is controlled by men. Earlier, most of the produce was brought home and stored, and the women exchanged it for other commodities. Such a system vested more control with the women."

WOMEN ARE UNSKILLED

Women have unequal access to resources.

Extension services tend to reach only men, which perpetuates the existing division of labour in the agricultural sector, with women continuing to perform unskilled tasks. A World Bank study in 1991 reveals that the assumption made by extension workers is that information within a family will be transmitted to the women by the men, which in actual practice seldom happens. "The male dominated extension system tends to overlook women’s role in agriculture and proves ineffective in providing technical information to women farmers."

Mapping Progress, states, "in the farm sector, the process of mechanization of agricultural activities has brought in tendencies for gender discrimination by replacing men for a number of activities performed by women and also by displacing the labor of women from subsistence and marginal households. Women are employed only when there is absolute shortage of labor and for specific operations like cotton-picking.

"To supply food-processing industries being set up with foreign collaboration, there has already been a major shift from subsistence farming method of rice, millet, corn and wheat to cash-crop production of fruit, mushrooms, flowers and vegetables. This shift has led to women being the first to lose jobs."

A number of factors perpetuate women’s limited job skills: if training women for economic activities requires them to leave their village, this is usually a problem for them. Unequal access to education restricts women’s abilities to learn skills that require even functional levels of literacy. In terms of skill development, women are impeded by their lack of mobility, low literacy levels and prejudiced attitudes toward women. When women negotiate with banks and government officials, they are often ostracized by other men and women in their community for being ‘too forward.’ Government and bank officials have preconceived ideas of what women are capable of , and stereotypes of what is considered women’s work.

WOMEN ARE MISTREATED

Violence against women and girls is the most pervasive human rights violation in the world today.

Opening the door on the subject of violence against the world’s females is like standing at the threshold of an immense dark chamber vibrating with collective anguish, but with the sounds of protest throttled back to a murmur. Where there should be outrage aimed at an intolerable status quo there is instead denial, and the largely passive acceptance of ‘the way things are.’

Male violence against women is a worldwide phenomenon. Although not every woman has experienced it, and many expect not to, fear of violence is an important factor in the lives of most women. It determines what they do, when they do it, where they do it, and with whom. Fear of violence is a cause of women’s lack of participation in activities beyond the home, as well as inside it. Within the home, women and girls may be subjected to physical and sexual abuse as punishment or as culturally justified assaults. These acts shape their attitude to life, and their expectations of themselves.

The insecurity outside the household is today the greatest obstacle in the path of women. Conscious that, compared to the atrocities outside the house, atrocities within the house are endurable, women not only continued to accept their inferiority in the house and society, but even called it sweet.

In recent years, there has been an alarming rise in atrocities against women in India. Every 26 minutes a woman is molested. Every 34 minutes a rape takes place. Every 42 minutes a sexual harassment incident occurs. Every 43 minutes a woman is kidnapped. And every 93 minutes a woman is burnt to death over dowry.

One-quarter of the reported rapes involve girls under the age of 16 but the vast majority are never reported. Although the penalty is severe, convictions are rare.

Selective Abortions

The most extreme expression of the preference for sons is female infanticide and sex-selective abortion.

A study of amniocentesis in a Bombay hospital found that 96 percent of female fetuses were aborted, compared with only a small percentage of male fetuses.

"Government officials event suspect that the disproportionate abortion of female fetuses may be a major underlying cause of the recent decline in the nation’s sex ratio. In 1971 there were 930 females for every 1,000 males. A decade later this figure had increased to 934, but by 1991, instead of continuing to rise, the ratio dropped to 927, lower than the 1971 figure. This sex ratio is one of the lowest in the world."

Sonalda Desai reports that there are posters in Bombay advertising sex-determination tests that read, "It is better to pay 500 Rs. now than 50,000 Rs. (in dowry) later."

Government has passed legislation to curb the misuse of amniocentesis for sex selection and abortion of female fetuses. Women activists have been critical of this act because of its provision that calls for punishing the women who seek the procedure. These women may be under pressure to bear a male child.

WOMEN ARE POWERLESS

Legal protection of women’s rights have little effect in the face of prevailing patriarchal traditions.

Marriage:

Women are subordinate in most marriages.

Exposure to and interactions with the outside world are instrumental in determining the possibilities available to women in their daily lives. The situation of women is affected by the degree of their autonomy or capacity to make decisions both inside and outside their own household.

"The position of women in northern India is notably poor. Traditional Hindu society in northern rural areas is hierarchical and dominated by men, as evidenced by marriage customs. North Indian Hindus are expected to marry within prescribed boundaries: the bride and groom must not be related, they have no say in the matter, and the man must live outside the woman’s natal village.

"Wife givers" are socially and ritually inferior to "wife takers", thus necessitating the provision of a dowry. After marriage, the bride moves in with her husband’s family. Such a bride is "a stranger in a strange place." They are controlled by the older females in the household, and their behavior reflects on the honor of their husbands. Because emotional ties between spouses are considered a potential threat to the solidarity of the patrilineal group, the northern system tends to segregate the sexes and limit communication between spouses — a circumstance that has direct consequences for family planning and similar "modern" behaviors that affect health. A young Indian bride is brought up to believe that her own wishes and interests are subordinate to those of her husband and his family. The primary duty of a newly married young woman, and virtually her only means of improving her position in the hierarchy of her husband’s household, is to bear sons."

Sonalde Desai points out that the perception that sons are the major source of economic security in old age is so strong in the north that "many parents, while visiting their married daughters, do not accept food or other hospitality from them. However, given women’s low independent incomes and lack of control over their earnings, few can provide economic support to their parents even if parents were willing to accept it."

In the south, in contrast, a daughter traditionally marries her mother’s brother or her mother’s brother’s son (her first cousin). Such an arrangement has a dramatic impact on women. "In southern India, men are likely to marry women to whom they are related, so that the strict distinction found in the north between patrilineal and marital relatives is absent. Women are likely to be married into family households near their natal homes, and are more likely to retain close relationships with their natal kin."

"Over the past several decades, however, marriage patterns have changed markedly. Social, economic, and demographic developments have made marriages between close relatives less common, and the bride price has given way to a dowry system akin to that in the north. Nevertheless, as long as the underlying ethic of marriage in the south remains the reinforcement of existing kinship ties, the relatively favorable situation of southern Indian women is unlikely to be threatened."

Child Marriages

Child marriages keep women subjugated.

A 1976 amendment to the Child Marriage Restraint Act raised the minimum legal age for marriage from 15 to 18 for young women and from 18 to 21 for young men. However, in many rural communities, illegal child marriages are still common. In some rural areas, nearly half the girls between 10 and 14 are married. Because there is pressure on women to prove their fertility by conceiving as soon as possible after marriage, adolescent marriage is synonymous with adolescent childbearing: roughly 10-15 percent of all births take place to women in their teens.

A May 1998 article in the New York Times states:

Child marriages contribute to virtually every social malaise that keeps India behind in women’s rights. The problems include soaring birth rates, grinding poverty and malnutrition, high illiteracy and infant mortality and low life expectancy, especially among rural women.

The article cites a 1993 survey of more than 5,000 women in Rajasthan, which showed that 56 percent of them had married before they were 15. Barely 18 percent of them were literate and only 3 percent used any form of birth control other than sterilization. Sixty-three percent of the children under age 4 of these women were severely undernourished.

"Each year, formal warnings are posted outside state government offices stating that child marriages are illegal, but they have little impact."

One man interviewed for the article has seven daughters. He borrowed some 60,000 rupees to pay for the dowries for six of his daughters, ranging in age from 4-14. He reported that "the weddings mean that he can now look forward to growing old without being trapped in the penury by the need to support his daughters." (NYT)

Dowries:

Women are kept subordinate, and are even murdered, by the practice of dowry.

In India, 6,000 dowry murders are committed each year. This reality exists even though the Dowry Prohibition Act has been in existence for 33 years, and there are virtually no arrests under the Act. Since those giving as well as those accepting dowry are punishable under the existing law, no one is willing to complain. It is only after a "dowry death" that the complaints become public. It is estimated that the average dowry today is equivalent to five times the family’s annual income and that the high cost of weddings and dowries is a major cause of indebtedness among India’s poor.

A December 1997 article in India Today, entitled, Victims of Sudden Affluence states, "A woman on fire has made dowry deaths the most vicious of social crimes; it is an evil endemic to the subcontinent but despite every attempt at justice the numbers have continued to climb. With get-rich-quick becoming the new mantra, dowry became the perfect instrument for upward material mobility." A study done by a policy think-tank, the Institute of Development and Communication, states, "the quantum of dowry exchange may still be greater among the upper classes, but 80 percent of dowry deaths and 80 percent of dowry harassment occurs in the middle and lower stratas."

The article goes on to state, "So complete is the discrimination among women that the gender bias is extended even toward the guilty. In a bizarre trend, the onus of murder is often put on the women to protect the men. Sometimes it is by consent. Often, old mothers-in-law embrace all the blame to bail out their sons and husbands."

Despite every stigma, dowry continues to be the signature of marriage. Says Rainuka Dagar, "It is taken as a normative custom and dowry harassment as a part of family life."

Divorce:

Divorce is not a viable option.

Divorce is rare — it is a considered a shameful admission of a woman’s failure as a wife and daughter-in-law. In 1990, divorced women made up a miniscule 0.08 percent of the total female population.

Maintenance rights of women in the case of divorce are weak. Although both Hindu and Muslim law recognize the rights of women and children to maintenance, in practice, maintenance is rarely set at a sufficient amount and is frequently violated.

Both Hindu and Muslim personal laws fail to recognize matrimonial property. Upon divorce, women have no rights to their home or to other property accumulated during marriage; in effect, their contributions to the maintenance of the family and accumulation of family assets go unrecognized and unrewarded.

Inheritance

Women’s rights to inheritance are limited and frequently violated.

In the mid-1950s the Hindu personal laws, which apply to all Hindus, Buddhists, Sikhs and Jains, were overhauled, banning polygamy and giving women rights to inheritance, adoption and divorce. The Muslim personal laws differ considerably from that of the Hindus, and permit polygamy. Despite various laws protecting women’s rights, traditional patriarchal attitudes still prevail and are strengthened and perpetuated in the home.

Under Hindu law, sons have an independent share in the ancestral property. However, daughters’ shares are based on the share received by their father. Hence, a father can effectively disinherit a daughter by renouncing his share of the ancestral property, but the son will continue to have a share in his own right. Additionally, married daughters, even those facing marital harassment, have no residential rights in the ancestral home.

Even the weak laws protecting women have not been adequately enforced. As a result, in practice, women continue to have little access to land and property, a major source of income and long-term economic security. Under the pretext of preventing fragmentation of agricultural holdings, several states have successfully excluded widows and daughters from inheriting agricultural land.

Women in Public Office (Revised May, 1999)

Panchayat Raj Institutions

The highest national priority must be the unleashing of woman power in governance. That is the single most important source of societal energy that we have kept corked for half a century.

--Mani Shankar Aiyar, journalist, India Today

Through the experience of the Indian Panchayat Raj Institutions (PRI) 1 million women have actively entered political life in India. The 73rd and 74th Constitutional Amendment Acts, which guarantee that all local elected bodies reserve one-third of their seats for women, have spearheaded an unprecedented social experiment which is playing itself out in more than 500,000 villages that are home to more than 600 million people. Since the creation of the quota system, local women–the vast majority of them illiterate and poor–have come to occupy as much as 43% of the seats, spurring the election of increasing numbers of women at the district, provincial and national levels. Since the onset of PRI, the percentages of women in various levels of political activity have risen from 4-5% to 25-40%.

According to Indian writer and activist Devaki Jain, "the positive discrimination of PRI has initiated a momentum of change. Women's entry into local government in such large numbers, often more than the required 33.3 %, and their success in campaigning, including the defeat of male candidates, has shattered the myth that women are not interested in politics, and have no time to go to meetings or to undertake all the other work that is required in political party processes…PRI reminds us of a central truth: power is not something people give away. It has to be negotiated, and sometimes wrested from the powerful."

Contrary to fears that the elected women would be rubber stamp leaders, the success stories that have arisen from PRI are impressive. A government-financed study, based on field work in 180 villages in the states of Uttar Pradesh, Rajasthan and Madhya Pradesh, and coordinated by the Center for Women’s Development Studies in New Delhi, has found that a full two-thirds of elected women leaders are actively engaged in learning the ropes and exercising power. Says Noeleen Heyzer, executive director of UNIFEM, "This is one of the best innovations in grass-roots democracy in the world."

Women leaders in the Panchayati Raj are transforming local governance by sensitizing the State to issues of poverty, inequality and gender injustice. Through the PRI, they are tackling issues that had previously gone virtually unacknowledged, including water, alcohol abuse, education, health and domestic violence. According to Sudha Murali, UNICEF Communications Officer in Andhra Pradesh, women are seeing this power as a chance for a real change for them and for their children and are using it to demand basic facilities like primary schools and health care centres.

The PRI has also brought about significant transformations in the lives of women themselves, who have become empowered, and have gained self-confidence, political awareness and affirmation of their own identity. The panchayat villages have become political training grounds to women, many of them illiterate, who are now leaders in the village panchayats. Says Sudha Pillai, joint secretary in India’s Ministry for Rural Development, "It has given something to people who were absolute nobodies and had no way of making it on their own. Power has become the source of their growth."

By asserting control over resources and officials and by challenging men, women are discovering a personal and collective power that was previously unimaginable. This includes women who are not themselves panchayat leaders, but who have been inspired by the work of their sisters; "We will not bear it," says one woman. Once we acquire some position and power, we will fight it out…The fact that the Panchayats will have a minimum number of women [will be used] for mobilizing women at large." It is this critical mass of unified and empowered women which will push forward policies that enforce gender equity into the future.

An observation by Deepak Tiwari in This Week, India’s No.1 Weekly News Magazine, displays the promising future made possible by the PRI. He notes, "‘Learning politics’ is the latest fad for young village girls, who dream of joining the growing band of women panchayat representatives, 164,060 at last count, in the state."

Conclusion

As UN Secretary General Kofi Annan has stated, "Gender equality is more than a goal in itself. It is a precondition for meeting the challenge of reducing poverty, promoting sustainable development and building good governance."

This recognition is currently missing in India. Transforming the prevailing social discrimination against women must become the top priority, and must happen concurrently with increased direct action to rapidly improve the social and economic status of women. In this way, a synergy of progress can be achieved.

  • As women receive greater education and training, they will earn more money.
  • As women earn more money - as has been repeatedly shown - they spend it in the further education and health of their children, as opposed to men, who often spend it on drink, tobacco or other women.
  • As women rise in economic status, they will gain greater social standing in the household and the village, and will have greater voice.
  • As women gain influence and consciousness, they will make stronger claims to their entitlements - gaining further training, better access to credit and higher incomes - and command attention of police and courts when attacked.
  • As women’s economic power grows, it will be easier to overcome the tradition of "son preference" and thus put an end to the evil of dowry.
  • As son preference declines and acceptance of violence declines, families will be more likely to educate their daughters, and age of marriage will rise.
  • For every year beyond 4th grade that girls go to school, family size shrinks 20%, child deaths drop 10% and wages rise 20%.
  • As women are better nourished and marry later, they will be healthier, more productive, and will give birth to healthier babies.
  • Only through action to remedy discrimination against women can the vision of India's independence — an India where all people have the chance to live health and productive lives — be realized.


    Source:Hindustanis.org